Holiday calendars fill up fast: cookie exchanges, work parties, neighbor get-togethers, family dinners. Showing up with a hostess gift is a small gesture that goes a long way—but it doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive.

Here’s how to put together preppy, personalized holiday hostess gifts that look pulled-together and festive, even if you’re running out the door.

Step 1: Choose a Monogrammed or Personalized Hostess Gift

A bottle of wine is fine. A personalized gift? Much more memorable.

Consider:

• A monogrammed serving platter or tray

• A personalized holiday décor piece (sign, print, or small accent)

• A preppy kitchen or bar item 

Think about the host’s style: do they lean cozy traditional, coastal Christmas, or more classic preppy plaid? Choose a design that would look at home on their table or mantel.

 

Step 2: Pair It with a Simple Consumable

If you want to keep the budget reasonable but the gift feeling full and generous, pair the personalized item with something consumable:

• Your favorite cookies or baked treat

• A nice candle they can burn after everyone leaves

• A small coffee, cocoa, or tea set

Let the personalized gift be the “keepsake” and treat the consumable as a little seasonal bonus.

Step 3: Wrap It in Preppy Christmas Style

This is where you can really lean into your brand.

Use:

• Preppy Christmas wrapping paper—think nutcrackers, tartan, bows, poinsettias, or winter florals

• A coordinating gift tag with the host’s name or a short message (“Thank you for having us”)

• Ribbon or twine that complements your pattern

Even if the actual item inside is simple, the wrap will make it feel elevated and intentional.

 

Step 4: Add a Short, Genuine Note

A simple hostess note can make the whole gift feel personal:

• “Thank you for opening your home to us this season.”

• “We love being part of your holiday traditions.”

• “Your home always feels so warm and welcoming—this reminded me of you.”

Slide the card under the ribbon or tape it inside the lid of the box.

Holiday Hostess Gifts, Done

You don’t need a complicated DIY project to show up as a thoughtful guest this season. Just remember:

1. One personalized piece that matches their style

2. One consumable treat

3. Preppy Christmas wrapping that ties it all together

Start putting together your hostess gifts here:

• Shop Holiday Hostess Gifts & Décor  

• Shop Christmas Gift Wrap & Tags